Mature or Immature ~~ ^^

Recently ~
Found that lot of people around me facing different types of problem ~
Family problem ~
Financial problem ~
Relationship problem ~
Friendship problem ~
Academics problem ~
Career problem ~ 
Etc ~

Even me myself facing problem too ~~ ^^

My friend always ask me ~

"Why you always laugh ? " 

I answered ~

"Why I cannot laugh ? "

I am just thinking ~ 

I don't have to be always sad because of some problem that can be solved ~ 

I don't think they are worth to be letting me myself sad for whole day ~ 

Sometimes ~ 

People are stubborn ~ 

They are not willing to think in different way ~ 

Or can be said that ~ 

They don't think other way will solve the problem ~ ^^

3 years ago ~ 

I was facing a lot of problem ~ 

It made me ran away from home to a new place that without any relative ~ 

Lived alone ~ 

The 3 years ~ 

Changed me a lot ~ 

Exposed to the social life out of family protection ~ 

Definitely realized that ~ 

I am so lucky that I am protected by my family ~ 

Even though my parents keep on scolding or teasing ~ 

Their heart still protecting me ~ 

3 years time ~ 

I learned something ~ 

How to change the relationship between family members ~ 

How to ignore those things or people that look down at me ~

How to protect myself from all kind of attacking action ~ 

How to cut down the chance of arguing with parents ~ 

How to change my life better ~ 

And ~ etc ~ 

I think ~ 

In these issues ~

Emotional Quotient ( EQ ) is very important ~ 

Even how clever we are ~ 

If don't have moderate EQ ~ 

We are failed to be a human being ~ ^^ 

Here I take family problem as example ~

MATURE ~~

People that having mature thinking ~ 

Will not do something that bring no benefit ~ 

Example ~ 

Argue with parents ~ 

Is there any benefit that we will get ~ ?? ^^ 

Other than that ~ 

We should express our filial piety to them too ~~ 

And ~

We should think that is there anything that we did is wrong before we blaming others ~ 

Is it possible that people scold us without reason ~ ? 

I know ~ 

There are tons of people that will scold people without reason ~ 

But think before blame ~ 

We can't control other people's mind ~ 

Just make ourselves better ~ 

It will be a tough task ~ 

But ~ 

As my friend said ~ 

We just need 21 days to formed our habit ~ ^^ 

When ourselves are not perfect ~ 

Then why we spend so much time to blame others ~ ? ^^ 

Have we asked ~ Is it worth ~ ? ^^ 

When there are something unworthy to make us angry or waste time ~ 

Then what for we do it ~ ?? ^^ 

For an example ~ 

A person scolded you ~ 

For sure you'll angry ~ 

But when you think it in another way ~ 

You'll find that ~ 

He/She scold is his/her own business ~ 

What for you yourself need to angry or care about ~ ?? 

No need to explain so much when a person don't understand us ~ 

If they care about us ~ 

They will find ways to understand us ~ ^^ 

The more we explain , the more they misunderstand ~ ^^

Keep quiet at the right time ~ ^^ 

It will make ourselves more comfortable ~ ^^

Sometimes ~ 

Don't ask for what we will get when we sacrificed something ~ ^^

IMMATURE ~~

Those who are immature ~ 

We will find that we are very stress at every moment in our days ~ 

Asking why people keep on scolding us ~ 

Why people don't understand us ~ 

Why people don't like me ~

Why this why that ~ 

Have we ever think that ~ 

I did something that makes people don't like me ~ ?

I did something wrong ~ ? 

Or can I make myself better ~ ? ^^ 

Keep on blaming others is not a good way to live better in our life ~ 

We all should be responsible on our own life ~ 

Nobody should take care of us in our whole life time ~ 

Come alone Leave alone ~ 

Everyone knows that ~ ^^

Should our parent take care of us ~ ? 

Should they spend money on us ~ ? 

Should they worry about us all the time ~ ? 

They shouldn't ~ 

But why they do it ~ ?? 

They are just showing their love to us ~ 

They gave birth to us ~ 

Did we appreciated ~ ? 

Most of us just keep on complaining ~ 

Why they always like to control us ~ ? 

Why they do this , why they do that ~ 

Mature or Immature is not relate to how old we are ~ 

Is the thinking in us that determine it ~ ^^ 

Mature will always make our life easier ~ 

Immature will just ruin up everything in our life ~ 

Decision is in our hand ~ 

Choose to be mature or immature ~ ^^ 

Is all depend on us ~ ^^

heidi
27 April 2011